I've NEVER understood folks here when they say they feel more COMFORTABLE in ladies things. As u did. I find ladies things to be;
tite, usually pretty warm, restricting, titillating, stimulating, erotic, and arousing. Which r all reasons I DO wear ladies gear! :D But, NEVER for comfort! Nothing beats my drab, loose undies, jeans, open shirt, and loafers for that!
Other than that, I quite agree with what you're saying! That passing requires a great deal of compromise in our dressing look! To PASS, most feel they must dress to BLEND! Maybe NOT at all how they would LIKE to present if they could dress ANY WAY they wanted to when they went out! If they could, without getting arrested, assaulted, or insulted!:Angry3:
And u and I have something in common in our dressing! In that neither of us cares to PASS, or compromise! U wear only a skirt, and go out that way!
I dress like a drag queen. But, I CAN'T go out dressed that way! Because I WON'T PASS!
It's NOT fair, but few things in life r!:brolleyes: