I will try and rephrase this one more time. Even if the reason stated OUTLOUD in the world is "He dresses like a woman" there is much more under that when it comes to divorce. It is the selfishness, the attitude, the lack of sensitivity...it rarely is just the clothes. I have to love all the people here who believe that women have an agenda. That they sit and plot a way out of every relationship and just wait to pounce at the smallest reason. It isn't just one sided you all. There is more than the dresses. It is something often many things that you do that leads to the divorce.
As long as we, yes I said we, as a community continue to believe that we are bad people who are somehow "touched in the head" then yeah, your neighbors will buy that too and the teacher (who could not give a plug nickel as long as your kids don't look abused) because he/she only wants your kids to get smarter and advance to the next class not what you are wearing at home. You keep seeing the boogey man behind every corner you will never get anywhere.
Come out, don't come out, the world will continue to spin (for at least another two years or so). But as long as YOU believe you are wrong so will everyone around you. If you want to stay closeted and one day your wife finds you dancing in your thong and she leaves, it isn't because of what you wore, it is because you didn't warn her ahead of time. But don't come back on here and cry because she left. You had your chance, you blew it, you kept hiding and lying. Look in the mirror. Are you a bad person? I didn't think so. Why do you keep hiding then?
