It was best said, gender is who we are and sexual preference is who we do. Not wanting to be thought of as gay is not my definition of a Homophobe. Phobe mean to fear. So a homophobe fears homosexuals. I do not fear homosexuals. I respect them for who they are and how they conduct themselves in society just the same way I respcct heterosexuals. If they point a a gun at me and are gay I am then a homophobe. If a heterosexual points a gun at me I am a heterophobe, I guess.
How can the thread starter use labels toward the "I'm not gay" posters and not be hypocritical.
When it comes to gays the only thing I will admit to is, jealousy that they are a bit better understood by a small portion of mainstream society than heterosexual crossdressers. In fact one post questioned my heterosexuality without ever meeting me?
Open season can start now!
