Hello Michelle, since I'm not out of the closet and think I will never be, I can only imaging your frustration. in my case my wife actually is my problem, she found out a couple of years back when she looked into the history of my computer. It was a very painful experience for me and for her, she said that she always has felt that I was different even in our love making. that I was more like a girl always wanting to be caress and that some times she felt that she was arguing with a girlfriend and not a husband. I never new this, I told her about the good things I do and how far outweigth it my imperfections, I told her that changing was very hard for me because I have been this way since I was little. I stop CD for a while, but the need for me is too strong, I like to feel like a woman even if is only in my imagination. So I don't know why I'm telling you all this because it doesn't help you with your problem but you have my support. I guess your son will eventually have to decide if your CD is acceptable all you can do for now is to educate him and show him a lot of love and afection.
