Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
A lot of people here right here on these boards seem to feel the need to add the little disclaimer... I am not gay, and may even add.... I don't have a problem with gays, It's just not something I'am into. According to some.. these people must be homophobes, because it isn't possible it seems, to express a preference without being one. You want people to accept you the way you are without thinking that you are a weirdo,or pervert or a molester, because you are none of those things, you just have a preference for female clothing. But if another has a different preference, like wanting to have a gg as an SO, or a gg expresses her preference as not to have her SO be a cross dresser, then they are homophobes and trans phobic respectively?
Good observation. But gay does not apply to trans people unless or until they identify as either guy or girl in my book. And it is also situational dependant. I think it is perfectly fine to be straight today, and perhaps gay tomorrow, and neither the next day. Or does this become to messy?

Gay guys want guys I presume. Homo means the same. Of course all humans are quite similar, but relativity plays with our perceptions it seems. Anyway. I assume a guy that identify as gay prefers another guy. Not a trans(woman to be) or a grown woman. Or something else one transes too...