Quote Originally Posted by Melissa A. View Post
As someone who is still pre-op, and certainly not 100% passable, the ethical challenge of to tell or not to tell, and when, isn't an issue for me. The men I date(not an every weekend occurance!!!) at least know and either don't care, or prefer a woman like myself.
When I was dating, if someone asked me out, and I was interested I always told them first thing....before the first date. Who needs the drama? If they were cool with it.....good, if not....next!

Kel