Well, you can never tell if they are stealth or not. I met another transwoman at a party of other transwomen and we exchanged email addy's. And pretty much shot down any offer of conversation or interaction as outting herself. She said that she'd been transitioned and living stealth for a decade and the last thing she wanted to do was hang out with another transwoman and out herself. I was laughing for days. I haven't met a FAB yet who was afraid that if we were seen in public together people would think that she was a TS. Proving once again that I see stealth as trading the closet for a prison of fear. Carol