It's not always about passing; there are plenty of very ugly, fat GG's out there that we could blend in with.

It's about wanting to be beautiful, and very few of us here can manage that. Yeah, I know, 'it's all about attitude', and 'beauty comes from the inside', yada yada yada. For all the assorted reasons, the desire to be a stunningly beautiful, sexy woman resides in a lot of us, but it's just not going to happen for 99% of us, because we're simply not built that way. Yes, there are quite a number of men who will date us, even knowing that we aren't 'real women', in fact, that may be the real draw. But for those of us who aren't interested in men, that's not exactly any consolation prize.

In addition, I for one grew up being made fun of on a daily basis for my appearance, and have absolutely no desire to go through that again, ever. So trying to 'pass' isn't in the cards.