Hi Shikyo
When it is just the two of use things are fine. This summer there were just two of us and we had no children or neiboughs around so I spent the long summer evenings (when it wasn't raining) in the garden wearing something nice. It was a bit of freedom, but now I've lost it I'm finding it hard.
We've spoken about me 'comming out', my dream is to wake up in the morning, get dressed how I feel and walk out the front door. I get some freedom by going to a group (my girlfriend comes with me, she enjoys it as much as me) but I suppose I want more, without the consiquences.
I though about jumping on a train and going 20 miles down the road but then you have the issues of getting changed, I don't fancy getting dressed up in a public loo. (We don't have a car which I suppose makes life more difficult)
I suppose I have two options, hid and be safe or come out and then face the consiquences.