Pardon me for a moment as I get on my soapbox (and it is relevant).
Every time we have someone who gets busted or otherwise tells a SO, one of the more frequent comments is to have her come here. That is great advice! But..... you have to really set this up. If you just walk your SO to the computer and give them a link, you are open to them digesting everything here and potentially having thoughts that any and all things apply to you. Then their mind can run rampant and it can be hard to reign things back in.
We realize there is a broad spectrum of who we are represented here. But does your SO know that once they are pointed here?
What could they think about you if you don't really have some talking complete before she comes here? Well, she could end up thinking you are gay even if you aren't (or you are). She could think you want to transition even if you aren't (or you do want to). She could think you have any one of many fetishes described here, even if you don't (or maybe you do). But is she going to realize what is really true for you just from reading the site?
So the point is, don't just put her on this site. Make sure she understands where you stand. Make sure she knows she will get exposed to the whole range of who we are and that we are all different. And without a shadow of a doubt, make sure she knows that the FAB forum is there and it only takes 10 posts to apply to it.
End of soapbox.
I wish you the best. Listen to her carefully so you do hear her concerns. Educate her well, but at her pace, not yours. And most of all.
