I disagree entirely. I went out of my way to find a man who wasn't like my father at all.
Not that I dislike him at all. Bless him. I take most traits from my fathers side of the family, in both looks and personality. (I look like his mother.) Needless to say I am sturborn and blunt just like my father, so we frequently butt heads over things.I have no desire to be with anyone who is just like him or me. That would make for a very awkward and short relastionship.
My partner is calm and collected and we never butt heads over things.