Do I ever understand what you are saying! My goal is to be able to slide back and forth from masculine to feminine without batting an eyelash, and I have no intention of losing my male functions.
There is so much available to reshape the male body without hormones, and that's the route I plan to go, that is whatever I might need to be comfortable passing. Maybe nothing will be required, and that would be ok. However, there is facial surgery available (even a yahoo website associated with it) and certainly laser hair removal. Beyond that there is taking care about your body weight and which muscles you strengthen.
Basically there is a lot you can do to rearrange and remold yourself short of hormones. Once you've done that, you may have gotten far enough down the road that the sterility issue is a past tense in your thinking (i.e. you have all the children you want) and you might then take another step.
I hope for all the best in your goals, and I think so much of your SO!
tina
