Crossing dressing and dating guys?

[JulieK1980]

Maybe so, but how many of them go broadcasting it in front of their SO's and friends? or the SO's of their friends. I think that a lot of you miss the point. While a lot of you want to reassure your SO's that your cding is nothing more than that, you post how you fantasize or think about being with another man. How many of you that are in a committed relationship would want your SO to read what you write about it? What do you think that their reaction would be if they did read about it? How do you think that such admissions affect the supportive gg's who are a part of this group and trying to understand what their cross dressing SO is all about?

I still say that's overly generalized. I'm hard-pressed to believe I'm the only one here that has a fully supportive wife AND still is completely open and honest with her. While I agree there are some that do not think of there spouse in the matter, or don't care to tell there SO about their fantasies or actions, I don't buy that its only men doing this, and its probably an equal statistic of women behaving in the same manner. Its more of a sad state for People in general vs. men or Women or CD'ers or Non-CD'ers.

What I'm trying to get across is that we don't necessarily have enough information to judge the actions or posts of others on here, as we are only getting the information they give. We don't know necessarily if there SO is aware or not, or what is acceptable in there relationship, as all relationships are different. If they are in fact "cheating" within the confines of there own relationship, then yes its bad, but for all we know they have a SO who is ok with what they do.