Quote Originally Posted by Soriya View Post
I am really starting to believe that these desires while dressed is very normal and actually very heterosexual for those of us that are not attracted to men while in 'man mode'. When we dress, we are presenting as a woman, feeling like a woman, and most importantly, thinking like a woman. It's as if we are placing our male side to the background and bringing our female side to the foreground.

... I am really starting to believe when we are thinking like a woman, it's natural to have have desires for the opposite sex since we are mentally a woman despite our physical 'plumbing'.
Hi Soriya, I'm not trying to be difficult, but that's my point exactly. So the wife is now married to only a part-time husband. This would create an imbalance in any relationship. The issue is not being attracted to a male vs. a female. It is about habitually being attracted to someone else outside the relationship. Of course, if the CD is single it is another story altogether.