Not sure if this is relevant, but ...
When I lived in Colorado Springs, I owned an "art" business and my partner was a little "bi" and mostly lesbian. She and her lesbian friends frequently dragged (no pun intended, lol) me out with them to "lesbian" bars they enjoyed.
I was not cross-dressing at that time. But I was always welcome and always ended up having a blast, dancing etc. with all the women at the various places we went. They would often want to "introduce" me to this "guy" they know, etc., but aside from that, it was always a great time.
