Bill, I might agree with some of the things you bring out about "dressing," but certainly not all. Your Gender is determined at birth! There are, at least in humans, only two Genders, Male and Female.
The clothing you wear does not determine your gender, although it certainly may indicate your preference! During most of my married life, my late wife fixed my wig and did my makeup well enough for me to comletely pass as a female. We went out as two girls and had many encounters with men! Never was I "outed!" Now that she has passed away, I go out as a man but dressed as a female! In five years I have never had any problems while doing that. Probably just jinxed myself! LOL! The main point is that I am a man, but I love to wear feminine clothing! I am a Crossdresser and freely admit it!
BTW, I Crossdress simply because I love the fit, feel, and look of feminine clothing! Not for sex or any other reason!!
