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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    All men want one thing in a woman, whether they know it; is another matter since our subconscious influences our decisions. When you strip away everything all men say they want, you'll find an underlying thing which is common in all men.

    My statement states that because within the subconscious there is a female thinking/feeling mechanism, this enables the crossdressing etc. man to see the insight to what they're really looking for. While non-crossdressing etc. men don't have that insight.
    Kate you are making assumptions nothing more.
    Do you have proof of this subconcious thinking/feeling mechanism that [all?] crossdressers, etc seem to have, while also be able to prove that all non crossdressing, etc men don't?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deborah Jane View Post
    Kate you are making assumptions nothing more.
    Do you have proof of this subconcious thinking/feeling mechanism that [all?] crossdressers, etc seem to have, while also be able to prove that all non crossdressing, etc men don't?
    Correct me if I'm wrong you're a crossdresser; so you think and act like a woman?

    The answer to that would be yes, so you have an underlying need to act and dress as a woman, topics on here which have people purging and then come back because of the need to crossdress, implies that subconsciously something is driving them.

    Therefore a man who doesn't crossdress, does he think and act like a woman? No, so the man who doesn't crossdress doesn't have an underlying subconscious need to crossdress.

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    I thought the meaning of crossdresser was “man in a dress”???

    I think you’ll probably find Debs is a TS not a CD. There is a massive difference.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    Correct me if I'm wrong you're a crossdresser; so you think and act like a woman?

    The answer to that would be yes,
    1...Actually I'm not a crossdresser I'm TS
    2...I don't [and never have] thought like a woman, I know plenty of women [I've even been married to two] and I think nothing like them on most things.

    3...So, the answer to that is actually a resounding NO

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    Quote Originally Posted by NiCo View Post
    I thought the meaning of crossdresser was “man in a dress”???

    I think you’ll probably find Debs is a TS not a CD. There is a massive difference.
    Crossdress: to dress in clothing typically worn by members of the opposite sex.

    http://http://dictionary.reference.c...rossdress?r=66

    I'll give you some time to think about the philosophy behind it.
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    Still, it’s a man wearing woman’s clothing in this case…not someone who’s brain is wired female which is what a female TS is.

    Oh and don’t try and be smart by linking it to a dictionary…why don’t you look up TS in a dictionary, you won’t find any connection to a CD there.
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    Two things Kate

    1) You really need to stop thinking everyone in the transgender community is nothing more than a bloke or broad occasionally having a fling in the other gender's clothes and that we crave women.

    I mean if I am nothing more than a man wanting some hot tail and just like to dress in drag every once in a while, thank god! Now I can just turn off hating being born a man and can get on with my life. Thank you so much, you just saved me years of therapy and emotional turmoil, how ever can I repay you!?

    2) By your logic, you have an avatar in bondage so that means unequivocally that you have deep insight into torture because isn't every bdsm just a little serial killer waiting to get out?

    I don't think you care what other people say here at all, you have made up your mind and are just looking for validation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    All men want one thing in a woman, whether they know it; is another matter since our subconscious influences our decisions. When you strip away everything all men say they want, you'll find an underlying thing which is common in all men.

    My statement states that because within the subconscious there is a female thinking/feeling mechanism, this enables the crossdressing etc. man to see the insight to what they're really looking for. While non-crossdressing etc. men don't have that insight.
    What would you call this "one thing?" I see much of what you are saying about unconscious life, but this 'one thing' you speak of is highly amibiguous and smells like gross generalization without explanation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    Discuss the following statement:

    Transsexuals have a greater insight into what a man seeks in a woman, then men themselves.
    IDK bout that cuz I'm into women not men...so I think I have a greater insight into what a woman seeks in another woman and it's ALL good, girl.

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    The only insight I have from being a CD is all the crap women go through on a daily basis while barely even thinking about it. Other than that, I have no special insight about who wants what.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NiCo View Post
    I think you’ll probably find Debs is a TS not a CD. There is a massive difference.
    There's a difference, but not massive.
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    I think I have a better understanding of how I would like to see a woman dress.. And I also understand why it might be better to drop of the woman wearing heels in front of the store or whatever rather than have her wear her high heels from a very far distance especially if she had been wearing them all day..
    This is what I mean by "every guy can look like a girl from the right angles".. this is one of the first pictures of me dressed up.. very vague look.. almost fem...

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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    Do CDs/TS/TV have a greater insight into what a man seeks in a woman, then men themselves.
    Here is your First mistake-
    You Assume the following:
    That all Transgendered people like women as their preferred, or even sole partners.

    Within each group of us their are what could be called:
    straight, bi, gay and/or lesbian members.

    PS: When you assume..... you make an ass out of you.


    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    It's not silly, since Crossdressers, Tranvestites, Transsexuals etc. are all part of the transgendered community.
    Here is your second mistake.
    You again "Assume" that just because CD'ers, Tv's and TS' are all "covered under" Transgendered that we all must be the same. We certainly are NOT!

    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    What do men look for in a woman?
    However is this what men are really looking for in a woman? That only a male who is transgendered can provide a more insightful look in what a man is seeking in a woman, then a male who isn't transgendered.
    So what you are saying is the avg Joe really has no idea what he wants in a women, but a transgendered person does?

    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    For your information:
    Transsexual people identify as, or desire to live & be accepted as, a member of the sex opposite to that assigned at birth
    Wow! I sure am glad you cleared that up for me.
    But just to clarify that "definition" of yours.
    We [Transsexuals] are people, people who are the opposite of our genetically defective birth bodies and our supposedly "correctly assigned" birth gender.

    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    All men want one thing in a woman, whether they know it; is another matter since our subconscious influences our decisions. When you strip away everything all men say they want, you'll find an underlying thing which is common in all men.

    My statement states that because within the subconscious there is a female thinking/feeling mechanism, this enables the crossdressing etc. man to see the insight to what they're really looking for. While non-crossdressing etc. men don't have that insight.
    WOW - Too fuuny.
    You say All men are the same and all want "one thing" from a women and follow that by saying their subconscious influences their decisions.
    Every person's conscious [and subconscious] is different isn't it?

    There is truly only one thing that [almost] all men want from women and [almost] all women want from men.
    That is to procerate in order to further humanity as a whole.
    Just like every other creature on the planet.

    So to answer your question -
    You don't need to be a CD, TV or TS to know this.
    You just need to have gotten through 4th grade science class.

    So is that what you wanted to know Kate?

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    I think you’ll probably find Debs is a TS not a CD. There is a massive difference.
    There's a difference, but not massive.
    Really?!? I beg to differ.
    I think that while there are some basic similarities or parallels between CD's and TS's there is a world of difference between the two and the divide is massive as stated by Nico.
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    I'll let you in on a secret there is no correct or wrong answer to that statement, it's a bit like the statement of:

    If a tree fell and there was no one around, would the tree still make the cracking and all the noise?

    and all the questions that plato, aristotle etc. asked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    I'll let you in on a secret there is no correct or wrong answer to that statement, it's a bit like the statement of:

    If a tree fell and there was no one around, would the tree still make the cracking and all the noise?

    and all the questions that plato, aristotle etc. asked.
    Through out this whole thread I have watched you skate around [your opening statement/question] more then a professional hockey player.

    And throwing random quotes and such around every time someone responds like does a tree falling make a sound, or what is the sound of one hand clapping, if a bear shits in the woods, if a train leaves Chicago at 6:15 heading west, ect, does not really help your cause now does it.

    SO why not just do away with all the philosophical beating around the bush and just ask the real question you seemingly want to ask but are somehow or in someway afraid to ask.

    Because any more random statements or quotes like:
    Two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity;
    and I'm not sure about the universe.

    Is just a waste of time isn't it. :D
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sammy777 View Post


    Is just a waste of time isn't it. :D
    No, as I've got my answer what I was looking for.

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    Yes, really. There's a massive difference between myself & some CD's, but they are not all CD's, just as there's a massive difference between a given TS and some TS's.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KateLongman27 View Post
    I'll let you in on a secret there is no correct or wrong answer to that statement, it's a bit like the statement of:

    If a tree fell and there was no one around, would the tree still make the cracking and all the noise?

    and all the questions that plato, aristotle etc. asked.
    how much wood would a wood chuck wood if a wood chuck could chuck wood ...

    please discuss..

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    It is not rocket science to know what many men want in a women. It also does not take a CD, TS, or GG to know this.

    Guys want the honey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Really simple!

    Katie

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaitlyn Michele View Post
    how much wood would a wood chuck wood if a wood chuck could chuck wood ...

    please discuss..
    What size is this Wood Chuck? is it male or female? what is the wood chuck wearing? Kaitlyn, you didn't give us enough information about this Wood chuck to be able to give any good advice.
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    Oh, on the other thing, most of the time I don't what I want, much less what others might want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tina B. View Post
    What size is this Wood Chuck? is it male or female? what is the wood chuck wearing? Kaitlyn, you didn't give us enough information about this Wood chuck to be able to give any good advice.
    Tina B.
    Well here is the Woodchuck in question, it would appear to be male, though further investigations have suggested he/she to be transgendered

    Could you figure out "how much wood would a wood chuck wood if a wood chuck could chuck wood" based on the evidence given and this photo?

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    finally this thread is starting to make some sense

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    I have no idea what men seek in women because I don't identify as one. Next!

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    Why else would men secretly admire transsexuals?

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    Because they are inspired by their courage and strength?

    [Well that’s my answer anyways.]
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