For me, sexual orientation was first. I finally came to terms a couple of years ago that I’m not sexually attracted to women. Dating (and my marriage) was only an attempt to do what’s normal and expected…
Now I know that I’m neither sexually attracted to women nor men in my male persona.
Second was gender ID. I feel more feminine than masculine. This is still pretty new to me. My female side is attracted to women, but more in the sense that I want to be the woman in question.
Very confusing. But hey, isn’t that what makes life fun? :drink:
olga
