Some posts here have accused you of achieving your goal through manipulation and deceit. I think you found a creative way to introduce your wife to something that would have otherwise been unacceptable. In the real world this is called spin.
There was no force used, and she was free to accept or reject any part of this by her own free will, and although you may have had your own objectives and agenda, she probably had hers too. In the end you both got what you wanted/needed. It was a win/win solution.
It's obvious your wife KNOWS you're a cross dresser and is accepting.
I applaud you!!
