Hi Lori,
I agree and tried to convey that it means and is something different for everyone. From 24/7 to an "every now and then play thing"
But I can assure you of one thing, this man does not view women as submissive or even the weaker sex. Quite the opposite in fact. I thought I made that clear in my original post. My desire to serve the woman I love is out of total respect, admiration and love for her. She is the strongest woman I have ever known. I happen to like strong intelligent women. So this works for us and we could not be happier.
So yes, it depends on what each person would consider being submissive. My SO being the one in charge works for the both of us. I've never known a more loving, caring, open and honest relationship then I am blessed to have with her.
