Charlotte I went to a gender therapist for almost the exact same reason. The pink fog engulfed me and I need to get my bearings. I am not sure if he helped all that much.
I felt that spending time on this site and talking with other TG friends helped. I definitely know that long talks with my spouse and our marriage counselor has helped. Now the fog has subsided and I feel better about who I am and at think I have my priorities straight.
I hope all of this works out for you.
