I believe you just embarrassed youself by taking a basic point I was trying to make and reading it literally. For shame!!
Ever try to navigate through years of marriage? Well, I have. Have I been honest with my wife? I'd say yes, 90+ percent. The other ten percent? Basically that's the not calling her a crazy b&*@h to her face when she was acting that way, or keeping my mouth shut when I knew I couldn't reason with her. Simple as that. Not saying what we really think at the right time is a godsend, and is a KEY FACTOR in every...single....marriage in existance.