Hello and congratulations for having such good taste in an SO! I personally am fortunate because I am short, small boned, petite, and except for my little friendly belly, thin. I try to dress well in the styles that I like to see GG's, including my EX, my daughter and past girlfriends wear. I pass from a distance only. I also go out regularly to mainstream venues like any other person, male or female.
Why do I tell you all this background? Passing for some is a serious goal, but not for me. I work at fitting in, blending in and being accepted by those with whom I converse, and that is with everyone I come into contact with when dressed! I believe that if one has the correct attitude, confidence and personality, they can accomplish the fitting and blending in with others while out. Now, a thick skin is also required because you never know when some idiot will make an unnecessary negative comment. Yes, some will have a very hard time blending in, however, to me the key element is the confidence and personality.
