Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
for my part, when I see my SO dressed in ways that I dress in order to attract and appeal to HIM/HER, I wonder, who is she really dressing for. My SO maintains that women dress sexily in order to feel good about themselves.
I'd say he is dressing for himself (especially if this is in private).

I think most crossdressers dress for themselves, I do. I like getting dressed up in silk dresses and satin gowns. Outfits not suitable for everyday wear.