So let me get this straight... you're wearing a bra to work but you "want to get it off your chest"??? Are the hooks stuck or what? Ha ha, couldn't resist that.... actually I wanted to get serious with you here--What would you do if someone actually did "slap you on the back" ? Wouldn't that lead to a rather embarrassing sitch? Wouldn't it be a bit difficult to face that guy afterwards without somekind of explanation which, depending on who it is (your boss!) may or may not go so well. I guess what I'm saying is be careful! Losing your job or having to quit in these hard times is nothing to fool around with. I hope you aren't addicted to taking chances to get your thrills, especially since you mentioned you are a parent. Be cool!