I agree with the majority. My marriage just ended as well after 15 years. She knew going into it about my CDing. She accepted and even liked it when it benefited her. In the end. She cheated on me and then used that as the reason. I honestly think that the reason women do not like CDing is because they are insecure, either in the marriage or in thier looks. I think that if a women is secure in her femininity, she would not care what you wear. In fact i hear a lot of women talking in groups about how they would like to dress thier man up in thier clothes.