I don't do the total body shaving thing because my wife likes my body hair. And yes she knows about my CDing. She is not thrilled with it but she accepts that it is part of who I am. However, we are also swingers. I know that doesn't sit well with some of you, but here is my point. A lot of the males in the "lifestyle" community are very open that they shave or wax their entire bodies, and their SOs prefer that any males they "play" with also be completely hair-free. These are guys that are hyper-masculine yet they are smoother than a lot of us CDers. So go figure. It takes all kinds to make a world.