Quote Originally Posted by linda allen View Post
If you're not at all sexually attracted to a man when in drab, but you dream about being intimate with one when dressed, does that make you "bi"?

Others have said it also. Somehow I'm dreaming I'm dressed and being intimate with a faceless male. Would I actually do it if I had the opportunity? I think so, but I'm not sure. It's not likely to happen so I suppose I'll never know.
I really don't know. I'm bi and I'm 100% bi all of the time. I can't turn it off and on. When someone says that they are attracted to men while dressed, it makes me skeptical. It makes me skeptical because I think you are caught up in a moment (of sorts) and like the idea of being with a guy.

There are certain things that turn me on (the idea of them); however, I couldn't actually do these things when it comes down to it. It's the moment at he end of the day.

So, when you tell me that you are attracted to males ONLY while dressed, I think that it is a lot of the fantasy of living that "ultra-femme" expression. It's not really the guy that you are attracted to, but being as feminine as you possibly can.

In a lot of ways, I feel like this can let you down. Hooking up with a guy just to feel as feminine as possible may actually not be as cracked up as you thought it would be if you aren't bisexual at the end of the day.

Idk those are my thoughts. What are yours'?