I respect your position, JohnH, but just out of curiosity, why do you like to dress in women's clothes?
Also, it is my understanding that "transgender" means crossing a gender boundary, even if it is only in appearance. There are many ways to cross it and not everyone who does so relates in part or in full with the opposite gender's ID.
Threads like these are interesting, but difficult since some people either are not aware, or they do not want to recognize the generally accepted definitions of some of the basic terms.