Quote Originally Posted by maya1love View Post
Hi all -- I think that Jenni's story really illustrates to me that there are some masculine (if you like that), intelligent gay men out there who will not only tolerate our cding, but accept it as well. I too, have, in the past, met gay men who been very accepting of my cding. (Hell, two of my previous boyfriends even bought me lingerie on special occasions!) I know that they are few and far between, but we only need one in order to make us happy and fulfilled!

I find that the problem with engaging a "tranny admirer" man, or leading in a personal ad with the fact that you crossdress is that crossdressing becomes the focus of the relationship. If I'm going to build a relationship with a man, we have to have more in common with each other than the fact that we both like that I crossdress. And...more importantly, these men usually don't want to be open about being in a loving relationship with another man. (I've reconciled the fact that I won't transition to being a woman) However, I have had some lovely dates with tranny admirer men, but we both know that it's not going to go anywhere.
I totally agree with Maya Jenny's relationship is the ideal one not only for us but to any straight crossdresser too , a supportive partner is really valuable.
My relationships have been the kind Maya describe dates that I know from the beginning are going nowhere I have to admit that sometimes I pursued Married guys trying to avoid a more sentimental attachment but a letter from a wife really changed my mind..now my number one rule is no married guys at all. One of the things I really admire Jenny is the fact that there is no age difference on her relationship, lately I am only getting responses from guys either too young or quiet older than me and I really feel more comfortable with guys around my age.