Yeah, but a large part of the female population is either L or B. But, I mean, even straight girls do it...think about the magazines that are targeted to women. Pick up an issue of Cosmopolitan...look at the ads and count how many scantily clad women are in there. In that case, they are dressed scantily to get a woman to buy a product...but, the fact is that they are using the sex appeal to get the attention of the reader. And, you can't tell me that you've never been going to a party and you want to be the hottest girl in the room. Isn't that dressing for other women to some aspect...if only a competitive aspect?Originally Posted by ReineD
Yeah, but you're bi!I think I mentioned in the original post with pics that unless the sexy sweater dress is a lesbian (I forgot to mention bi), she is dressing to appeal to men. I'm strictly hetero (except for my SO), and there's just no way I would have the same thoughts about that woman as a guy would.
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To everyone: by making the points I've made, I'm suggesting that if the CDers who do dress suggestively or sexily (show boob, leg, or a$$), or however you want to put it (more than just blend) are not aware of their appeal to men, then they should. It is the men who will react to these outfits a certain way (if the CDer does go out this way, or posts the pics) ... not the women.
I agree completely with your last statement. Dressing sexily is going to gain attention from EVERYONE. When a girl walks into a party wearing next to nothing and looking like a ho...what do all the other girls do? Get in a group and talk sh*t about her. But, I wonder...do CDs dress this way to seek this attention from men on some subconscious level? What's more feminine than passing so well as a woman that another man wants you? Not saying that this CD is bi or gay...just saying that we do things for attention that are pretty weird and we may not know the exact root of WHY we are doing what we are doing.
