I dunno. I'm shy. And she asked if I lived alone, several times, and found that to be weird, and very straight forward. So a bit unsure about her motives. I presume a lesbian, when she was at a gay bar and asked this way. I'm not sure how into this I am. I go there only to hang out. Not really to make connections.Originally Posted by flatlander_48
If it's sexually motivated it's imo not ideal basis for friendship.
I like being approached, so it was all good, very nice.
Two weeks ago, I fooled around with a guy in there, just for fun. Then he put his hands under my dress. And said ...Wtf-you are a dude, you are lucky it's me, Or I would have beaten you up". I was very shocked, and told the guards I was being threatened with violence. They told me to tell them if it happened again and they would deal with it. That's why I didn't go for a few weeks. I find this strange, as I don't consider myself all that passable, and a gay pub to boot. So there should not be an issue either way imo. I hate being threatened with 'beating up when I just want to have fun.
But that was the only time it was bad, mostly it's fine. Like this lesbian. That was cool. Real pretty, feminine, long hair, curvaceous. Much more then me. I'm kinda curios, what she wants. It would be awesome if it was only to hang out. But kinda doubt it. I don't know any lesbians, so not quite sure how that works out.
