Dear Aislinn,

One thing you can be absolutely sure of here is that this fellow doesn't have much kissing on his mind. Don't worry about the kissing. You will figure THAT out pretty quickly.

Now what I DO what you to worry about is your own personal safety. Be VERY sure that you will be safe. Meet in a public place like the dining area of a local mall, or maybe the post office. Make absolutely certain that a trusted friend knows where you are, where you are going (call her/him if you don't know beforehand), and when you are coming back.

If things get that far (and I'm sure they will if your new friend wants to "treat you like a lady") USE A CONDOM!!!! Just be safe, hon. We want you to come back and tell us all about it, OK?

Stephie