I wish I could give you a big hug and make you feel better. I'm sure everyone on this site has worried about this, and it happened you ;( When you've collected your thoughts, you should consider contacting their main office and complain. They may have rules about men in the ladies dressing room, but it could have been handled with some discresion instead of making a scene! You are who you are and should feel proud that you are brave enough to go into the world as a woman. "It takes a real man to wear a skirt"