I am not sure that men caught masturbating, or leaving their mess behind, in women's dressing rooms are real CD's. Sounds more like sexual perverts that need to get off in public and semi-public venues, whether they like to dress or not. We have no control over them, just like the random street flashers. Regarding dressing appropriately at home?? You can dress any way you want at home. Go for it and enjoy it to its fullest.
Regarding dressing appropriately when out. I see that as a form of censorship when others decide how one should dress. It is a form of freedom of speech and I definitely do not want someone telling me what and what not I can or should wear. I am an adult and will wear what I want and will suffer the consequences of my actions. I always feel that the bad dressers just makes the rest of us good dressers that much more acceptable to others. Like a relief from a bad storm. The general public needs to see us in our complete range, because we come in so many different shoes, sizes and decorations, just like the rest of "normal" society. Some are good and others not. That is how they will get to understand us better, realizing that we cover the spectrum just like every other human group does, straight, gay, old young, "normal" and weird, whatever.
Just like in every other part of society, if one does not like what they see or hear, then they should try to avoid the type of situation where they may encounter it. If they can't all the time, that is where tolerance of others comes into play. Tolerate it as long as it is not threatening to the person. They don't have to accept it, nor us. They just do not have any right to ban us. We have as much right to be there as they do as long as we follow the law.
