It all comes down to fantasy versus reality for me. I am totally fine with my real world decision to never have sex again unless I find (damn near) the perfect person of ANY gender. To this point in my life, I've only been with women, but would never rule out anyone. Besides my politics and basic mannerisms, perhaps the closest I've ever come to "coming out" (as what, I'm not certain) is bringing up "The Crying Game" (as well as "Hedwig and the Angry Inch") to friends, family, and girlfriends. I have said if I were in love with what I thought was a woman and she revealed herself to be a man, I would continue without a moment of hesitation.
Something else I've always thought about per fantasy, however, (and this is open for comments) is how would you act, who would you be with, and what acts would you be open to IF there were no such things as STDs, unwanted pregnancies, etc. In other words, if you could do anything you pleased without repercussions. I dare say I would have tried just about everything with all genders and transgenders.
(please don't say it's ALL possible due to condom usage. First of all, I hate "safe sex". It doesn't feel good. Second, they can always break, so it's not all that safe)
