oh my gosh good question.. I hardly ever dress up.. i think after my 3 children and caring for them 24x7 I was just so exhausted.. for many years i would just throw my hair back and wear my jeans and a shirt or my PJs if i was staying at home lol..i had no desire to dress up even though my husband would always want me to but hes crazy :p in a good way.. tell me i should dress up to clean the house lol..but finally last week I did dress up and went to his work to suprise him.. he was very surprisedmade me feel good but boy i couldnt do that everyday i remembered how time consuming it was.. i have more things i need to spend my time on.. but once in awhile it does feel nice.. and makes me feel better inside.. but i will never give up my lazy days lol