I need you to inform me a little of which you speak DaphneGrey. Your statement "BDSM which seems to be a somewhat common interest among crossdressers" is the highlight here. Possibly I'm a bit over-protective of the CD world, but when I hear, or read, statements like this it causes me to squinchel a little. My exposure is that society in general looks at BDSM as something kinky and should be left hidden and out of site. (Unless you are of a heavy religious faith and then participants should go directly to hell and not pass go) With that being the case, is it not best to leave statements such as this out of a conversation where we know "Joe Public" is possibly cruising the forum. Do we not want the public to accept us as "normal" people? And that crossdressing is NOT wrong. Besides, I'm not really sold on the idea of yours that BDSM is indeed common among crossdressers. There certainly are those that participate ( and I'm certainly not one to judge it's morality), but common?
