Holly,
Its really hard to say anymore, I mean I am sure of how I feel about myself and I allow myself to be labled.. I think that is where most of the mis understanding is comming from, refussing to be labled, and why? If we can not tell or educate others how do we expect others to understand?
Sorry but life comes with lables, You straight, gay ,bi and/or transgender and trans sexual I just happen to be a straight transgender..No body is born 100 percent male or female, if that was the case we wouldn't survive due to the over dose of hormones . There has to be a balance some of us have a little more than others it makes the world a hell of a lot more interesting..
Now we can blame relgion , but then again we can remind everyone that the Pope also wears a dress ..