You know ... this has been mentioned in many other threads, but not in this one yet (I think :p).
We do have GGs who, when finding out after years of marriage (for some, decades), who don't automatically scream *divorce* due to the broken trust. A lot of it has to do with the state of the marriage to begin with. With a 50% divorce rate in this country, it is not surprising there are many other marital issues that come into play when a wife discovers after some years that her husband CDs. But for some reason, these other issues are seldom discussed when a CDer comes in here and speaks of his wife's non-support.
Just saying. It might not be a bad strategy to work on all the other marital issues first and get the marriage in good shape before tackling the additional issues surrounding the CDing.
