What made You who you are ?

[Rianna Humble]

Rianna, are you making excuses for who and how you are? Then the post wasn't about you! I wasn't trying to insult or malign you, so calm down. All I'm saying is to stop blaming outside things for making us who we are and own them.

Kathi

I do make reference to what happened in the womb as part of the explanation for who I am. The text I quoted specifically cited that as making excuses for ... "perceived gender".

Whether or not you were targetting me personally, your words encompassed me and were unwelcome