I will keep my post short and sweet: everyone is different, including crossdressers. You cant paint everyone with the same brush. Everyone is not your ex. Perhaps he is a selfish self absorbed person who just happens to crossdress. Doesn't mean we are all that way.
What you expect, you get from life. Have a positive expectation and you will find love. Expect less, and you will get just that. Good luck girl.
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