Yes that site caters to haters, and from what i have read in the guestbook, No accepting wives are there, it seems to be a soapbox for women rdy to divorce their husbands.
Most of them seem hurt or angry because their husbands have decieved them. And more than a few posts recommend outing him to all his friends.....lol, evil....just plain evil...
Many of the wives who do not accept seem to be caught up in what they lose from us because we Crossdress. Maybe beacuase they were bad at communicating as husband and wife before CD'ing came to the forefront?
Which brings me to my point here, many Married Couples, get married, start a life, have children, go into debt together....without really knowing each other. I see so many of my married friends go thru these motions and after years of being together they say something like "i dont know what happened to us"..... Its because they got caught up in what they thought the world thinks a "Good Marriage" or "Healthy Relationship" is, when the whole time they have neglected to ask each other what they wanted out of their relationship. Or to speak up when they need romance or attention or sympathy towards their problems they face. And that doesnt even count the difficulties and challenges of being involved with a TG person.
I have been asked by close friends many times- "How do you two do it? Married for so long and still love to be around each other" ......my answer is "Its because we are best friends before we are husband and wife"
Maybe at the end of the day, her acceptance for me as a crossdresser is because she knows me so well as a friend. Or maybe its because she just loves me for who i am....her husband...the crossdresser she fell in love with....
Just being me,
-Donni-
