Quote Originally Posted by Chickhe View Post
You are not a terrible person. What you did was terrible. There is a difference. We all make mistakes and probably what you are getting is feedback from the people who have done some similar things and have regretted it. Next time close their door so you are not tempted and go shopping :-)
Beautifully worded message. I do think too many of the responses remain too harsh - there was a thread for that. Let's move on.

Basic advice remains to go to her and apologize. Great idea for a gift card to replace the lingerie.