The majority of women will never accept.

[ReineD]

My S.O. and I have a good relationship and have found a balance. She appreciates the attributes that being part girl in the brain have brought to the relationship.

Exactly! I'm sure that if your wife stumbled upon that hate site, she'd roll her eyes and move on. She would not be able to relate to all that hate.

[t-girlxsophie]

maybe its because she just loves me for who i am....her husband...the crossdresser she fell in love with.

Donni,you have hit the nail on the head,My wife knew the whole story when we first met so it was easy for her to accept my dressing,who she fell in love with was her crossdressing man,and as long as the balance is right we have a healthy,happy relationship

Sophie

[DonniDarkness]

The couples that i read about here, that have great relationships all have one thing in common.... They communicate and respect one another for who they are. Its inspiring to know that others have found a balance too.

I think the moment when i truly understood the she really did accept both sides of me was when she told me "I want you to know that if there is a point in which you would like to go further with all this, i want you to take that next step. Ill be here for you"

To me that was a statement of unconditional love, it meant that no matter what, she would support me in all my freakyness. Its funny, as we go thru our own acceptance, our GG's go thru theirs as well....when you both come full circle with it Crossdressing as a whole becomes just another Day/evening together as a couple.

Like Katrina says here:

OK, of course its noticed, but its become more typical and less a big deal.

Katrina i think its because we become comfortable around our SO's and that in turn makes it more comfortable to be around us while we are dressed. It becomes just natural.

Also, spending time together while dressed helps to quell her fears about your desires as a crossdresser. My favorite place to be when dressed is close to her.

Some thoughts this morning,
-Donni-

[ReineD]

Also, spending time together while dressed helps to quell her fears about your desires as a crossdresser. My favorite place to be when dressed is close to her.

That's another great point. I wish more people would get this.

[Frédérique]

The majority of women will never accept. Show them love and understanding. See it from their side.

[SIZE="2"]Which implies that there is a minority of women who WILL accept – you get to decide who to be with, correct? I’m OK with most women not accepting – you can’t please everyone, but you must please yourself first and foremost…

Show them love and understanding? Sure, but isn’t that a two-way street? Come to an understanding (by any and all means) about crossdressing with an open mind but don’t expect any satisfactory explanations, because even the crossdressers can’t agree on the whys and wherefores of what they do…

See it from their side? Will they reciprocate, and begin to appreciate that some males don’t embrace their male-ness with the same enthusiasm and fervor? To begin with, I don’t like my MALE clothes – can you DIG IT? We’ll continue this discussion later…
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