Trina, I think that one could equate transitioning to "going pro" in a sport, say basketball. Many people dabble at the sport, some may be quite talented at the sport, but very very few have the combination of physical ability and total commitment to make it their complete life. Possession of a basketball and a Lakers jersey does not mean that someone's likely to replace Kobe no matter how much they dream about it.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.