"You spend a lot of time on the computer when I wish you were with me sitting next to me. We dont have to talk but just hold one another. To be in your arms is to be in heaven. it makes me feel safe. I just want to feel like a priority to you again. Ive lost that feeling."
Then here is an idea. Throw out these narrow definitions of "man" you have. Look at your LOVE as a human being, that loves you, but is also scared. I can slightly understand your feelings, but get a little educated too. Most CDs don't want to go all the way, or lose their wives.
HE HID BECAUSE OF SOCIETY!!! Why is this so hard to understand? Can you honestly answer this question:
What if he had been completely open to you about his cding? Would you have married "your man"?
Or would you have ditched him like he was a piece of rancid meat and run into the arms of a "real man", who is likely hiding worse things?
I honestly have never heard a man say "I married a woman". Why is it I see women saying such limiting things as "I married a man". If a woman wanted to marry me because I was a man, then I would have questions about what it is she likes about me. Does she like me? Or the image of manly that is crammed down our throats?
