The issue I have is when I am thought of by the potential interests as being bi, or gay. The GG admitted to me what she first met me she wondered if I had a boyfriend. I know this is kicking at a dead horse but I AM TIRED OF PEOPLE THINKING THAT WAY. I have met many gay or bi people and NONE of them dressed like myself. They were usually in the ubiquitous jeans or khakis, and looked quite masculine if male, or feminine when female.
What I hope is I changed the GG's way of thinking now that she knows she was incorrect.