Hi Grace. Don't give yourself away by being nervous. Try no to look too sexy but feminine.Try a concealer and make up that matches your skin tone to cover any shadow. Then use a modest blush and lipstick. Your wig should be similar to your own hair color. Start small. Go out to the grocery store or a short walk around and act like a girlish. Practice using a light voice. If you have a friend who accepts you as Grace go out with them it will take the nervous away. I hope this helps and I wish you all the best luck. We all here went through what you are going to. Cindy.