I agree with Debglam, but fear can lead to irrational behavior and needs to be dealt with in some fashion, "fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to the dark side." Yes, I just quoted Yoda, but there is a lot of wisdom in those words if you ask me.
Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate and hate leads to suffering.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.